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Custody issues with kids?

My ex and I are in a heated custody battle over our two children. My daughter, who is 15, wants to live in LA with her dad. My son, who is 11, wants to live with me in MI.
The marraige and divorce was horrible. All I can say is at least I’m not getting beat anymore. However, the mental and emotional abuse continues through my daughter. While the dad was visiting last week, he allowed my daughter to call me (on his phone) to call me a F***ing w****. All because my boyfriends truck was backed into my drive. The abuse continues when I don’t allow her to have her way. We sat with one of her teachers and he told me that I simply traded one abuser for another.
Last year, he took both kids to live with him. When I finally got them back, my daughter ( at that time was 14) had 2 STDs, almost failed the 8th grade, smoking pot and cigarettes, and only God knows what else. My son failed the 4th grade. My ex is convicted of domestic violence, currently serving probation for a DUI and yesterday was put in lockup for violating the terms of his bond (for malicious phone use). He has an 11th grade education and I’m not sure if he’s working or not. He still lives with his mother, smokes like a train, and still drinks like a fish. He continues to berate me to them, lies to them, and puts down my relationship with my boyfriend.
What am I going to do? I can’t let her do this to me but I can’t let go of my daughter. I can’t let her turn out like him but she hates me so much and hurts me so much…..how much of this hate is her and how much of it is her dad feeding to her?

Chosen Answer:

you can send her to a group home but they will make you pay support,i would just let her go live with her dad then after she is in his home call the welfare and tell them they all smoke weed and you want them to test him and her, then they will remove her and keep her in a group home for about 6 mo,s then send her back to you free of charge and it will be on husbands record ,they will also drug test you in order to return herand once she spends time in a group home she will fell better when she goes back to you,and as long as you are nice to her the first time she gets in a fight with her dad she will come crying to you,,,,,,,

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